Infertility: Showing Up Well
A One-Page Guide for Friends, Family and Community
Infertility: Showing Up Well is a practical, compassionate reference sheet from Yesh Tikva designed to help friends, family members, and community supporters respond to infertility with greater care and sensitivity. When someone you love is navigating infertility, pregnancy loss, or complex family-building journeys, even well-meaning comments can unintentionally create pressure or pain. This one-page infertility support guide offers clear examples of what to avoid and what actually helps, including supportive language, low-pressure ways to check in, and practical actions that provide comfort without forcing optimism or advice.
Created within a Jewish framework of dignity and compassion, this resource helps individuals and communities show up more thoughtfully for those facing infertility. The guide highlights common phrases that can hurt—such as asking for updates, offering quick fixes, or making comparisons—and replaces them with supportive alternatives centered on presence, consent, and emotional awareness. Readers will also find practical ideas for offering help, such as simple check-ins, small acts of support, and language that validates the emotional complexity of infertility.
Whether you are a parent, sibling, friend, rabbi, community leader, or colleague who wants to support someone experiencing infertility, this resource provides actionable guidance for building more compassionate relationships. By increasing awareness and shifting everyday language, we can reduce isolation and create communities where people navigating infertility feel seen, respected, and supported.