Infertility Awareness Shabbat: Building More Inclusive Jewish Communities
A thoughtful conversation about how Jewish leaders and communities can create space, belonging, and
Rchael Oslund, Aydel Lebovics, and Kenzi Locks introduce Infertility Awareness Shabbat (IAS) and explore how Jewish communities can respond more thoughtfully to the realities of infertility, reproductive grief, and complex family building. Together, they discuss why infertility remains difficult to talk about, despite affecting so many individuals and couples, and how communal silence can deepen feelings of exclusion and isolation.
The conversation highlights the emotional, spiritual, and communal dimensions of infertility within Jewish life. The speakers examine how synagogue culture, holiday experiences, prayer language, and family-centered traditions can unintentionally leave those struggling with fertility challenges, fertility treatment, or family-building uncertainty feeling unseen. Particular attention is given to the period leading up to Passover, when child-centered rituals may intensify grief, longing, or complicated emotions.
This resource provides practical guidance for rabbis, clergy, educators, synagogue leaders, and community members seeking to foster greater awareness and inclusion. The presenters offer concrete ideas for participating in Infertility Awareness Shabbat, including sermons, educational programming, support initiatives, community conversations, and intentional language that helps reduce stigma while preserving dignity and privacy.
Those searching for support around feelings such as “I feel isolated because of infertility,” “My synagogue doesn’t understand infertility,” or “How can Jewish communities support people experiencing infertility?” may find this conversation especially meaningful. It also offers valuable insight for those supporting loved ones through fertility treatment, reproductive loss, or other complex family-building experiences.
Sometimes inclusion begins with a simple willingness to acknowledge what has long gone unspoken.