Thank you Ben for paying it forward; for your dedication in being a strong support system for Jewish men dealing with infertility.
- What led you to become a Fertility Friends peer mentor?
My wife and I struggled with infertility and, after our first son was born, I brought it up while speaking at his bris. After, I was blown away by how many people reached out to let me know they were struggling with the same thing, including close friends. Realizing how many other people were going through the same thing, but staying silent about it, led me to what to try and help others who might be going through the same.
- How has being a mentor impacted you, and what have you learned from the experience?
Being a mentor has been a wonderful experience and, even though I’ve dealt with infertility myself, has made me even more attuned to what people are going through. I’ve also learned how helpful it can be to have someone to talk to.
- What is one thing you wish more people understood about infertility?
Just how widespread it is, both for those dealing with it (to know others are as well) and for those that aren’t (to be more mindful about how many people are).
- Any tips for fertility warriors on navigating Passover, and how can loved ones best support them during this family-focused holiday?
Passover is of course tough, with such a focus on children. For fertility warriors, please don’t be afraid to advocate for yourself and take a break from the Seder or family time if you need it for your sanity. For loved ones, I think the best support is just being aware and mindful that others may be struggling.
