Fertility Friends is Yesh Tikva’s peer-mentoring program for Jewish individuals navigating infertility. We connect you with a trained fertility mentor who has lived experience with infertility, loss, or fertility treatments. Mentors understand the emotional, medical, and spiritual challenges of trying to build a family and provide compassionate, confidential infertility support through phone, text, video, email, or in-person check-ins. This safe space allows fertility warriors to share grief, hope, fear, and joy.

Each month, we highlight a mentor who uses their experience to help fertility warriors feel seen, heard, and less alone. This month, we are proud to feature Ben Goldberg, who has dedicated his time to supporting Jewish men navigating infertility.

1. Why Ben Became a Fertility Friends Peer Mentor

Ben shared what inspired him to join Fertility Friends:

“My wife and I struggled with infertility and, after our first son was born, I brought it up while speaking at his bris. I was blown away by how many people reached out to let me know they were struggling with the same thing, including close friends. Realizing how many others were going through the same challenges, but staying silent about it, led me to want to help those going through the same journey.”

His story highlights the importance of peer support for men facing infertility and breaking the silence around this common but often hidden struggle.

2. Lessons Learned from Mentoring

Being a mentor has had a profound impact on Ben:

“Being a mentor has been a wonderful experience and, even though I’ve dealt with infertility myself, it has made me even more attuned to what people are going through. I’ve also learned how helpful it can be to have someone to talk to.”

Mentoring allows him to connect with others, provide emotional support, and offer guidance from personal experience.

3. One Thing Ben Wishes More People Understood About Infertility

Ben emphasizes how common infertility really is:

“Just how widespread it is, both for those dealing with it (to know others are as well) and for those that aren’t (to be more mindful about how many people are).”

This perspective encourages awareness and empathy for everyone affected by infertility.

4.Tips for Fertility Warriors During Passover

Passover can be especially challenging for fertility warriors, with its focus on children and family gatherings. Ben’s advice:

“Please don’t be afraid to advocate for yourself and take a break from the Seder or family time if you need it for your emotional well-being.”

For loved ones supporting someone facing infertility, the best approach is to be aware and mindful that others may be struggling. Simple gestures of understanding can make a significant difference during this family-focused holiday.

Final Thoughts

Ben’s journey as a Fertility Friends peer mentor demonstrates the power of empathy, shared experience, and emotional support. For men and women navigating infertility, connecting with a mentor can provide a safe space to feel understood, supported, and less alone.

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