For many people facing infertility, the possibility of adoption brings both hope and uncertainty. In this conversation, Gila speaks with Erin Quick, founder and CEO of PairTree, about her own journey through unexplained infertility, multiple miscarriages, fertility treatment, and ultimately building his family through adoption. Together, they explore why adoption is not simply a “next step,” but an entirely different family-building journey that deserves thoughtful preparation.

The discussion examines what ethical adoption looks like, emphasizing the importance of supporting not only adoptive families but also expectant and birth parents. Erin explains why open communication, transparency, and ongoing relationships can create healthier outcomes for children, birth families, and adoptive parents alike. She also shares how PairTree was created to make ethical, well-supported adoption more accessible while reducing barriers that often exist within the private adoption process.

This resource is especially meaningful for individuals and couples considering adoption after infertility, those grieving the transition away from fertility treatment, and anyone wondering how to know when they are emotionally ready to pursue another path to family building. It also offers valuable insight for loved ones seeking to better understand the emotional complexity of adoption and reproductive grief.

If you’ve found yourself searching for “Should we consider adoption after IVF?”, “How do I know I’m ready for adoption after infertility?”, or “What does ethical adoption actually mean?”, this conversation offers compassionate guidance without minimizing the realities of either infertility or adoption. It reminds us that every family-building journey deserves honesty, dignity, and care.